The very lovely Lauren, who writes over at You Big Eejit, tagged me in this fun Christmas meme! (It’s awful I know, but I’ve only just fully grasped exactly what a “meme” is, I just ignored the word when taking part in one …! ๐ ) Lauren knows I’m always game for taking part in one and I’m particularly pleased to be a part of this Christmas tag! Thank you Lauren! ๐
Apart from half a dozen somewhat hazy Christmases when I was little and a relatively untraditional Christmas lunch with my Grandparents every year, I have very little history when it comes to celebrating Christmas. My parents and sisters don’t celebrate Christmas themselves and haven’t since I was roughly 6 or 7, so all my knowledge of customs, traditions and the religious significance behind the celebrations has come from my Grandparents agnostic and down-played Christmas Day and from reading books and the internet and listening to other people’s experiences.
That all changed for me when I moved out on my own, started dating and than married L. Christmas is now a fixed part of my year and I have very much enjoyed starting our own traditions and collecting memories! I still have that feeling that I have a lot to catch up on, so every year I try to make the most out of every element of Christmas – which definitely includes my own little Christmas series on my blog! ๐
What’s your favourite thing about Christmas?
Hmm, now that’s a difficult one! I love having over a few friends who to help L and I put up and decorate our Christmas tree, with the help of some mulled wine and mince pies – definitely a part of Christmas I look forward to each year! I enjoy going to our church’s Carol Service and hearing the choir they put together for it every year. I love the moment when my Mum-in-law opens the front door on Christmas Eve and welcomes us inside her lovely warm home for the Christmas week, all softly lit and filled with the gorgeous smells of her home-cooked supper, ready to give us big hugs, welcome kisses, a glass of wine and help us feel like we really have come home for Christmas! Late on Christmas Eve we set off for the Minster (a particular kind of old English Church) and go to the near-midnight carol and communion service with a real choir and candles – amazing!!! And seeing the smile of contentment on my Mum-in-law’s face as she looks round at all her family in her home!
What is your favourite make-up look for the festive season?
Umm … I guess I only end up wearing make-up about a dozen times a year, give and take! After a first try, I’ve never worn anything other than eye-liner/shadow, mascara and lip-gloss. I just hate the feeling of anything rubbed all over my face! Christmas is a time when I wear make-up almost daily, but pretty minimalist: a little of some soft earthy browns, blues or greens eye-shadow that have some glitter/shimmer, black eye-liner underneath to give some depth, a touch of dark mascara and sometimes a bit of very pale-pink lip gloss with some light shimmer in it … that’s me done!
Real or fake tree?
I love real trees! The smell, the natural look, the idea … however, I hate the mess they make!! ๐ L and I have a very small flat and we always go to his parent’s for a week over Christmas, so a real tree would be a waste. We have a very tall and thin fake tree that we put up with our friends and just fits our space. Once we’re home for the week, L’s Mum has a real tree that she decorates beautifully each year – it looks and smells absolutely amazing!! So really, we get the best of both worlds!! ๐
Giving presents orย receivingย them?
Ha! Who doesn’t like getting presents, right?! L hints at my gifts for a few weeks before, so I’m always bursting to find out what he got me when we get to the day – and he does get me wonderful presents! I think though that giving presents just tops receiving them for me – I just love planning gifts for each person, thinking what they will like, making and/or buying the presents while imagining what the person’s face will (hopefully!) look like when they open it and being able to give joy and pleasure to those I love! I am very excited about my Mum-in-law’s gift this Christmas, as I know already that she is going to adore it! I just hope she doesn’t cry …
Do you open your presents on Christmas morning or evening?
Morning, definitely! We all come down in our pjs and dressing gowns and squeeze onto the sofas between the tree and the wood-burning stove. One or two of us act as distributor and dole out the presents in piles, then the attack really begins! We usually have glasses of bucks fizz and hotย volovants for our breakfast during gift opening. Eeeeee!! Getting excited now! ๐
Handmade Christmas cards or bought?
I try to make as many card as I can, using Christmas paper and stickers I buy on sale in January. I keep them really simple, but I still have not yet managed to make all the cards myself, so they get supplemented with bought cards … I try!! ๐ I make most of the Christmas presents myself, so I feel it just about balances out! ๐
What’s your favourite Christmas film?
Ooh, this is a hard one … I don’t know that I really have a favourite Christmas film. I haven’t actually seen that many I don’t think – I saw The Snowman as a kid, It’s A Wonderful Life (hopefully never again!!), The Grinch and Love Actually. Although I’m not into girly films that much, I do usually watch Love Actually at this time of year!
What’s your favourite Christmas food?
So much of it is so yummy!! My Mum-in-law is an amazing cook and always does a traditional Christmas dinner with all the trimmings – yum-tastic!! I love Boxing Day Food! The potatoes and vegetable made into bubble-and-squeak, cold turkey and baked ham, lots of yummy cheeses, chutney, fresh bread, sometimes a meat pie too – I do love that meal!! Maybe that’s my favourite? Hmm. You know what, I shall pay careful attention to my food over this Christmas and make a decision on what my favourite is, ok?! ๐
I am going to pass The Christmas Tag onto these three lovely bloggers:
Just Live It!
Reinventing The We’ll
Happiness Stan Lives Here
I hope you guys enjoy doing this as much as I did! ๐